Should Men Shave

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Like being 'cut' shaving isn't a thing Men do over here. - to my knowledge which isn't much....

So I ask all you do you prefer your Men with a full bush down there or to be nicely trimmed, or completely bald?

And how do you feel about Men with a full hedge of armpit hair?
 
i rather like my men hairy, lol. it is my firm belief that men SHOULD be hairy, which is to include head hair, facial hair, chest hair, underarms, arm and leg hair, etc. however, i do find back hair to be a little gross, LOL. don't ask me to explain... i can't. its just unappetizing, okay? :shrug:

and NOBODY looks good with a mustache, im sorry. goatee, yes. beard, sometimes. mustache.... no sir.


as far as down there.... the anaconda should never be lost in the jungle, ya know? trimming may be necessary.
 
i can't STAND excssively hairy men. i mean the kind that hair damn near EVERYWHERE ..including their BACKS, knuckles , even their feet and toes! that's just too much.

when it comes to the genital area, if a man is naturally "bushy" down there and yet expected ME to give him oral favors, then HE would HAVE to trim that down. he doesnt have to get rid of ALL of it, but a nice trim is required.

a man with a hairy back gets NO play from me whatsoever LOL
 
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Well, I never have to worry about this LOL!:raspberry But, if I were straight I would prefer a guy to be bald. In my opinion it would be more pleasing to know, especially since I'm bald down in the basement area lol. Plus, I wouldn't have to worry about tickling my nose with pubic hair or anything.

I have to agree with the ladies, back hair is disgusting, I've seen men out in the streets with tank tops and you can see hair poking out. Its gross at least to me and I would prefer a smooth man, including a chest, armpits, etc. The guy would probably look more gay or metrosexual with his smoothness.

I get grossed out when I see guys with a lot of underarm hair, if its trimmed or shaved its not bad. But when its completely covering his whole underarm it looks messy and unkept.
But, what do I know? lol.
 
Some of my friends (I'm a guy) shave or trim their body hair. Actually, several of them. Their girlfriends all prefer it, lol.

And if I ever get a hairy back I'd get laser hair removal.

There was this guy at my church who was the hairiest person I've ever seen in person...his body was covered in thick black hair, even on his fingers. It was REALLY thick, he looked like a gorilla. One time I had to sit by him and I almost threw up.
 
I'd have to question just how serious some of you girls really are about your no hair policies. I mean would you ever REALLY be in the middle of getting down have your own top off and in the process of getting rid of underwear and just STOP the instant you noticed the guy had some back hair? Some how I doubt it.

I have no doubt that at least a few of the women I've been with don't much like body hair, and frankly I've got a hairy chest some on my stomach, and some on my shoulders (not really any actual back hair though some people would consider shoulder back hair) and I've NEVER taken my shirt off without it leading directly to sex. Granted some I never really saw again, but the point is that I've NEVER been in a situation where it's stopped the action nor have any of my friends.
 
Pretty much, I've got hair just about every where BUT my back, unless like I mentioned earlier you count the hair on my shoulders as back hair. Hell I was actually using nair for while on the shoulders and my last girlfriend told me to STOP using. Said she liked the hair all over the rest of me so what difference was nairing my shoulders making?

Like I said though, any time my shirt's EVER come off in front of a woman it was for the purpose of having sex, and no one's ever said anything to me about my hair though from what I hear publicly and online you'd think I'd never get any play.
 
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do you think that maybe you're not shedding your shirt enough then, dear?

LOL

I'm just saying... the boyfriends I've had in the past i ended up seeing without their shirts a time or two BEFORE we slept together... i mean, we do a lot of swimming/boating/beaching/outdoorsing... and 'round here it gets so hot that most of the time we're down to our swimsuits and its no big deal to see guys shirtless. I've seen ALL my guy friends shirtless, LOL. I mean, for real... its too the point where we can be comfortable walking around in our underwear because frankly, its nothing we havent seen before LOL. Trust me, when it gets to be 90 degrees in the shade, NOBODY cares if what youve got on underneath is your swim top or your bra.... that shirt's coming OFF, and the boys will have lost their shirts a LONG time ago, lol.

so.... maybe that's just the guys around here... but I ALREADY know whether ANY of the guys i might date in the near future look like under their shirt.... and if I didnt... i find out somehow. I dont like bad surprises, LOL. honestly though, if a guy i was REALLY into had back hair... i'd probably be like 'honey, did you know you have hair on your back? i could TOTALLY help you get rid of that!" LMAO
 
Eh what can I say, I move quick? I don't go to the beach much any more, and no one's taking their shirts off at the bars and clubs and I go to so there's really no reason for me to be walking around shirtless. So usually when the shirt comes off it's after the bar/club or what ever date I've taken her on and we're in my bed room. At which point the shirt's coming off because we're going to have sex. I've never gotten into this whole naked making out bullshit I've seen on tv, if the clothes come off we're having sex.
 
If your woman wants less hair and she is giving you some, then do the damn thing. If it is too oppressive, find a different woman.
 
It's not even that I'd particularly care either way, I was just making the point that I think that for as much as women seem to say they don't like hairy men, and for much as it seems to be the more popular opinion, I've NEVER had a woman mention my hair but I've had one deliberately tell me not to bother getting rid of any of it.
 
The thought of shaving downstairs never occurred to me, and seems like a recipe for disaster considering I still cut my face after over ten years of shaving, much less my...*coughs*...yeah.

I'd shave my pits and chest if my girl wanted me to. I'd get my back waxed if there was hair there, which fortunately there isn't. I think guys should be hairy, though. This conversation reminds me of the scene in Fight Club where Tyler looks at a poster and says "is that what a man looks like?"
 
wow these are the threads you walk into when your searching boards lol..... I dont recall any of my ex's actually shaved.... i think maybe one trimmed... i dunno so i guess it doesnt matter much to me i dunno if i asked my fiancee he'd probley look at me like i was nuts
 
Okay, this is like deja vu.. had this convo not long ago. Random info though, #3 (I think it was) method among men for hair removal is burning!
 
I would not ask a guy to shave or trim, but I prefer it trimmed or shaved downstairs. Upstairs I'm not fussed other than being clean shaven on the face. I'm shaved downstairs and its an amazing experience if you can find a bloke who is also shaved.
 
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