s & m

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Anyone tried it? Anyone seriously into it? Have you played with the general idea but not gone into it seriously? Is it a fantasy? Or, does the thought of this kind of RP put you off big time?
 
Can honestly say i've never done it, and Its not that it turns me off but I've honestly never even really thought to try it.. and none of my sexual partners ever brought the subject up either so...
 
I am not seriously into it but i have tried it, and only with my current partner. I actually enjoy it, it is not something i do all of the time but every now and again can be really fun. It is best done if you mix it in with some role play, well thats my opinion but thats what i would recomend to others who may wish to try it.
 
there are so many aspects that fall under "S & M" but aside from a little rough play, I've never tried anything else and I'm not willing to be tied up or blind folded.
 
I have done spanking, hair pulling, man-handling, cuffs, blindfolds...

...and a rape fantasy ONCE.
 
"rape fantasy"!? :eek: now...i'm one of the most LIBERAL people i know, but could you explain to me whose fantasy it was to be raped? maybe now WHO it was, but HOW it is that they fantasized about being...RAPED?
 
"rape fantasy"!? :eek: now...i'm one of the most LIBERAL people i know, but could you explain to me whose fantasy it was to be raped? maybe now WHO it was, but HOW it is that they fantasized about being...RAPED?


She wanted me to hide and jump out, literally tear her clothes off and do whatever I wanted to to her, as roughly as I dared while she resisted. I was pretty high and it seemed OK enough at the time. Kinda weird aftermath though. I decided to just sleep it of afterward and hope it was still cool when I woke up . It was.

They explained that they liked the submissiveness, the loss of control. They didn't REALLY want to be raped, they wanted a person they wanted to have sex with to explore that underlying wish with them.
 
Wow not really into S&M it seems interesting but not enough to try anything big unless i was really really bored in the bedroom
 
I've done the tying up, the spanking, the rough play, the blindfold, the roleplaying, but nothing like chains or whips.. I wouldn't let anyone do that to me.

I would probably do it to someone else if they wanted me to though.
 
Ok I've done; whips, blindfolds, rp as slave and master, cuffs,dressing up/down lol, spanking etc

I like it now and again but finding someone to be a good master and rp it well is always difficult!
 
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Jill Monroe agrees: i can tell you're a bad girl! i am too, but i dont think of it in s & m terms lol!


Well you know the saying....Good girls go to heaven but bad girls go down ;)
 
Theres a woderfull club in london(which i will not name)where you can be suspended from the ceiling via nippleclamps(i kid you not).
Its a gay bar,all i'm saying.
I was undercover,working for the secret service,and had to go and try this place out:heee:
Perhapes the trench coat was a mistake though;)
S&M,by that you mean sado machism or whatever its bloody called,right?
I call it bondage myself.I've tried it loads of times,with my on/off lover.
He loves it:xyxthumbs:
 
Yeah i tend to call it bondage too CP, but i remember my friend in high school actually telling me that there was a club in London like that.

Trust me,there is.
I forget the name(perhaps regressional pherapy will reveal its name)
but i got a shock when i got in there.
And thats not easy to do!
I'm scared of hight's..........and clamps;)
 
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