Gone Gay?

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I was just wondering if there is anyone out there who identifies as "straight" but has had a same sex encounter or even a same sex relationship? If not.. WHY not and is it a curiousity of yours? And if so.. what was it about the person? Has it only been ONE person or multiple people? Do you do it often or no.. Do you think a same sex encounter makes you gay? How sexually open are you to that idea? Not even ONCE? ;)

More and more straight girls are engaging and indulging in their same sex crushes and after watching an episode of a talk show where women discuss same sex crushes, I saw a SUPRISING number of women wonder what it would be like to be with another woman.

Also, I wonder about the straight men, though most of them will cling for dear life and absolutely deny any thoughts haha, but who knows, maybe somebody will surprise.

SO.. Have you ever.. GONE GAY?
 
I've gone gay.
Well even when I was straight, I was gay.
I experimented a little bit, you could say. I've been sure for quite some time now.
I got a little something-something with a girl about two months ago.
Not really an enjoyable time for me, though she got a huge kick out of it.
I hate homophobes, but I love messing with them.
There's nothing wrong with experimenting, but I think if you don't like it, it doesn't make you gay.
 
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captain peroxide
*raises eyebrow*
I have been out of the closet since I was 19 (which even by today's standards is rather late. Kids are coming out of closet as young as 12 or 13! Ah, remember my straight days haha?) Before that I fooled around with girls, but I was never all that into it.

I have since however made out with ALOT of girls, and there was one girl that I seriously considering.. "being" with. One of those connections where it really didn't matter to me that she was a woman. We were very close and it eventually my ex drove a wedge in between us. But I can say, if it were REALLY possible for me, as in I LOVED a woman, I think I might give it a try.

I don't really believe in completely straight or completely gay, I am a Kinsey Scale fan I think, everyone falls somewhere on a line in between.

My roommate and best friend was so boy crazy in highschool and after school, she became involved with a woman for four years.. Now she dates men. (though to be honest I think she is a true lesbian) but she identifies as "straight" she just says she "fell in love with a woman; it happens"
 
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captain peroxide
Oooo,i just love closet Queens*wink*
no. im not one of those women who revels in kissing other girls for the sole purpose of titillating other men or because i'm drunk off my ass LOL.

as a straight woman, i can appreciat the beauty of other women but i have never had a sexual attraction to women. they cant do for me what i need...and only a man can do for me what i need in THAT way LOL!

I dont have a problem with other people experimenting though. Ive come to AGREE with the school of thought that sexuality is more like a continuum rather than linear (the latter of the two is the way its drilled into american children's minds) and that it, like any OTHER aspect of a person can grow and change as they grow and change and experience different things in life. some people will only be interested in the opposite sex or only in the same sex, and others may find themselves willing/able to try something outside of their perceived normal realm at any given point in their life.

I just dont see MYSELF ever being sexually attracted to a woman no matter how beautifull she is because in the end, i enjoy men too much :)
 
I consider myself as Bi as I have had relations with women and fallen for women in the past although i prefer men. Some say I might be confused and I hate that as I just cant choose it all depends on who gets my attention although I will say when in a relationship I am true to that person.
 
I too would consider myself as bisexual. Although i am in a long term relationship with a man i have (and still sometimes am) sexually attracted to women, i tend to be with men more than women though. I think many people have tried something with the same sex even so much as just a kiss.
I hate the fact that i like women as well as men, but i guess you cannot choose who you are attracted to.
 
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I have experimented once in my lifetime with another woman (aside from learning how to kiss on one of my old best friends but everyone does that right?) but i'm talking about the whole nine yards. It was an interesting experiment but not enough for me to want to really do it again. I love men way too much so i think i'll be sticking to them lol. Though I can say that being with another woman is different that with a man or it was in my case, because another woman seems to know what to do better than a man. Like she knows what you'd like more, like there is a better connection or something. Either way... if you find a good enough man you can get that same connection so lol.
 
Well i'm bicycle sexual myself i have to say.
And i'm still locked in the closet,well i was until i opened my mouth that is.
I believe you are what you are,and our personalities are formed when we are young.You cannot fight it,its gonna happen whatever you do.
My ex is gone,and i'm alone.
Its cool though,i have you lot to whinge to,lol
 
Why am i synonymous with potato on this board? Peter has mules with his lipstick running around and Jill been up and down the east coast making her pimp's money :rolleyes: :p
 
I have never 'gone gay' but I must confess that I am really intrigued by the thought of being intimate with another woman.
 
Screen Legend said:
I have never 'gone gay' but I must confess that I am really intrigued by the thought of being intimate with another woman.
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is there anyone you know in particular that interests you in exploring that with? i think whether straight, gay, bi or whatever...its always better to do something with friends than with strangers lol.
 
Jill Monroe said:
is there anyone you know in particular that interests you in exploring that with? i think whether straight, gay, bi or whatever...its always better to do something with friends than with strangers lol.
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Unfortunately no. :( Not that I actually know of. Celebrities, yes. Actual friends? No.
 
No and No.

Just not my cup of tea. I am fully into live and let live, but I find men generally repulsive. And I am capable of finding something attractive in most women.
 
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