White Women who love Black Men come hither

[Tommy Udo]

I think it all depends on our backrounds, how we were raised, who what and where we spent a majority of our time, and the comfort level when we were there.
Also can never rule out those pesky hormones that seem to have a mind of their own...
I mean some women are flat out knockouts & don't arouse my curiousity at all.
I look at them like you would a painting...
Then some women considered to be average in looks get my hormones bubbling over..
So I think nature has a lot to do with attraction as well.
I never get offended when a woman says she isn't attracted to me because i know it's a hormone thing...not personal..

I grew up from a baby to 13 in a black-urban-ghetto enviornment.
At 12 I moved to a suburban, mixed college town enviornment comprised of people from all walks of life..

Indian, middle eastern, interracial, asian, black, white, hispanic.

I'm mixed myself, West African-Jamaican-Puerto Rican-Peruvian-Native American-Irish-English-Dutch..
I got peeps tryin' to talk to me from everywhere like I'm from there...

I was spoiled I guess w/ my exposure to peeps from all walks of life.
So what matters to me is simply the person..

I am attracted to a woman of any backround.

My LTR's as an adult have been with women of backrounds of East Indian, Romanian Gypsy, Puerto Rican, Chinese, & my high school love was an Irish Catholic white girl.

I've had close friends through the years that came from Oman, Lebanon, Japan, Russia, Egypt, Tanzania, & England.

I've casually dated the rainbow, literally...lol..

I think the coolest part about this in my experience has been learning all of the cultures first-hand.
In their homes, w/ their families, eating the foods, smoking the water pipes, learning the dances, enjoying the music.

I hate cats who look down on these people, many of whom struggle just to be here. They have to learn a new language, & many of them know multiple languages upon their arrival.

Anyway that's another thread...

The world is heading towards a day when none of this will matter anymore..
It's too bad I'll have to scope it as a spirit somewhere, instead of in the flesh.

 

[mrfolson]

Hey Shockwave guess wut, I'm a black man from the dirty south(Mississippi) :winkanim: I've dated alot of white women from my college days, to my military days. I enjoy thier company all to well. Believe it or not, the rise in interracial relations in the south is up very high in percentage, especially where I live. I stay about 15 miles from Ole Miss campus, and you all should know the history about Ole Miss, but thier are alot of interracial relations at Ole Miss despite its history. I feel like, people are saying why have we waited so long for this, and that knowbody cares wut anyone thinks anymore. I know I don't care. My family is very supportive when it comes to interracial relations. My question is, wut is everyone so damn afraid of?

 

[Osiris]

Society and family can be a big problem when it comes to inter-racial dating.

For those who currently or have dated someone of another race, what did you find to be the most difficult or challenging aspect of your relationship?

Also, do you feel that one or the other of both of you seem to act different around the partner's friends and family?

 

[Nackereia]

honestly..how many people here on this board HAVE or WILL date or even MARRY interracially?

I never thought about it much...actually, the last time I thought about it, I was 4, and I believed that white people should only marry white people and black people should only marry black people (sorry, I hope I don't offend anyone :$). I think I got that view from my mom. Though, since turning into a teenager, I figure, love is love. And at the end of the day, it's not my choice to make.

Now that I've seen this thread, I think I'll be more open-minded about considering black people (well, this thread in addition to the black guy I saw on the bus yesterday. He was well-built ). Though, I'll admit, the reason why I haven't considered it before is that my city has the highest poverty level in the state. Alot of people here (not just black people, white people as well) say "the [white] man" is holding them down, when really, it's just their own ignorance and disreguard for anything resembling education. I admit, I do fall into thinking that all black people are as annoying and unfriendly as the ones I know of around here, but then I meet black people at my dad's work, or on the bus, and they're pretty nice.

Another reason I wouldn't consider them before, is that I touched the hair of a male black kid in middle school, and it was far greasier than my own. I'm really sorry, but greasy hair is a bit of a turn off to me. However, if I fell in love with someone and they were black and had greasy hair, I wouldn't hold it against them

In the end (and I think it's a London thing) I don't feel I interaccially date, I just go out with the girl I feel attracted to because she is who she is. Her race is secondary to me.

Same. For the most part, I don't purposely seek out different races to date, but if I ran into someone of a different race and wanted to date them, their race wouldn't stop me.

Actually, I'd love to date a Latino Cause they're really georgous!

Also, a bigger requirment for me before I date someone is they have to be my friend first, and there has to be some chemistry between us that makes it worthwhile to see if we could be more than just friends. So, I'll cross the race bridge when I get there.

Oh, and Everyone's a Little Bit Racist Great song (link to lyrics ).